JUST FORGIVE.  You hear those 2 words thrown around frequently.  Blame is tossed at the person who had hurt you.  People may blame you for not forgiving.  But what does it mean to forgive?  Does it require an apology? You can't control if you'll get an apology from that other person.  So what happens then?  Even if you say "it doesn't matter anymore" then what does that mean for you?  How does it impact your relationship with others or how you see yourself?  Here is Oprah's definition of forgiveness.  Its not the only definition out there.  However, is this a definition that can help you be a healthier version of yourself?