Death does not discriminate against anybody.  You will experience it at least once in your life. You may feel numb, in disbelief, sadness, uncertainty and so many other things.  People may expect you to reach a certain way.  You may start questioning yourself or the people around you.  There is no textbook way to say this is what grief is supposed to look like.  It can be experienced differently from one person to the next.  You may experience grief similarly and differently with each loss.  I found this article to be simple, to the point and insightful.  Thom Dunn is sharing his knowledge of what he has learned from his grief.  You may connect with some of his points, none or all of his points...

5 lessons I learned after 5 friends under 30 died in 5 years

by Thom Dunn